From Chump to Champ: Four Steps to Coaching A Personal Quantum
Leap
By David Benzel
Alex
knew Chase had tremendous potential. As his manager, Alex was
frustrated watching someone like Chase wallow in mediocrity when he
should be excelling in the workplace. It wasn’t laziness; Chase
always did what was required. It wasn’t a poor attitude either. In
fact, Chase often commented on how much he loved his job. He just
seemed stuck, so as his manager, Alex decided it was his job help
take Chase’s performance to the next level. The question is, what
can he do?
Alex’s
dilemma is all too common in the workplace. Managers feel a
responsibility and a need to help employees raise their game. It’s
good for the company, the employee and usually the customer wins,
too! But most managers don’t know how, and threats and coercive
tactics fail to have any lasting impact. Incentives represent a
much healthier approach, but the increase in performance often
disappears as the incentive does.
There is
another way! As a manager or supervisor, you are in the unique
position to influence people who report to you. Unfortunately, most
managers choose to influence their people by telling them
things, rather than asking good questions, then giving
great affirmations. The trick is knowing what to ask and what to
affirm. Through the following four-step process, employees will be
transformed from the inside, out – a quantum leap – and it will be
their choice to go from chump to champ!
I.
What is the Dream? – Surprisingly, most people don’t have
a clear dream, and it’s usually because of one reason: They haven’t
decided what they want to be, want to do or want to have. A dream
is a picture of the future we want for ourselves, so as a manager,
you must ask the tough questions and help your people discover the
answers. Ask questions like:
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“If you could be doing anything you wanted here, what
would it be?” “Tell me why.”
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“What activities here give you the strongest feelings
of satisfaction or importance?” “Why is that?”
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“If you had were guaranteed success, what would you
dare to dream for yourself?”
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“What is a dream in your personal life that your work
here might help you achieve?”
Have
your employee write down the answers to these and others like them.
Assist him or her in starting a notebook, and call this “Step One –
Declaring My Dream.”
II.
What is the Target? – A target is a specific goal that
must be hit in order to make a dream become a reality. Dreams that
are not backed by specific goals will often remain unrealized
visions. A really good goal refers to some action that, if done
well enough or often enough, will result in the dream turning from
fantasy to fact. Ask questions like – “What specific target could
you aim for that would take you closer to your dream?” “How will
you measure your progress?” Here’s an example:
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Dream – Become the top sales representative in
my department.
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Improper target – “Outwork all other sales
reps.” (How will you measure “outwork”?)
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Proper target – “Make 20 percent more outgoing
phone calls each week to prospective clients than the office average
from the week before.”
Have
your employee write down one or two targets that involve measurable
activities to keep track of progress. Guide the person to select
targets that require stretching to reach, but are not out of reach.
This information should be entered in the Quantum Leap notebook as
“Step Two – Identifying My Targets.”
III.
What Will Be Imagined? – Images are the language of the brain.
If the sub-conscious receives those pictures often enough, personal
behavior will be modified to fit the pictures. The sub-conscious
brain is eager for information, but it does not judge the
information you send it as good or bad, right or wrong. It just
accepts it, and assumes you want it. Ask questions like:
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“When you imagine hitting your targets and achieving
your dream, what does it look like in your mind’s eye?”
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“Describe what you see, what you hear and what your
success feels like?”
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Make an affirmation like, “Since I’m familiar with you
and your work, let me share what I see regarding your success.”
Then describe what you see for them.
If you
truly believe in a person’s potential, the images you share from the
theater of your mind will have the force of a prophecy and create a
sense of confidence. Encourage people to play success scenes in
their mind daily. This imagery should also be written by each of
you and entered into the Quantum Leap notebook as “Step Three –
Seeing My Success.”
IV.
What is Believed? - If a person has a dream, has taken aim on
specific targets and has practiced imagining the desired outcome in
advance, there’s only one thing that could stand in their way …
roadblock messages. Roadblock messages are the self-limiting
beliefs people think to themselves. Many of your employees have
solid dreams, lofty targets and may even enjoy some moments of
mental rehearsal, but if they hear a small little voice in their
head saying, “I can’t do that” or, I’m not good enough to hit that
goal,” the chances of success are slim. Make affirmations like:
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“I know you will it the goal” or, “I believe in you”
or, “There’s no stopping you now!” Make it clear that you believe
how this is going to end.
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Ask questions like, “What does the little voice in
your head say about your chances of success?”
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“What part of this challenge intimidates you the
most?”
Discover
what personal roadblock messages they hear and help them replace
those messages with new messages. Explain that self-talk must be
positive and repeated daily if it’s going to replace negative
self-talk. A mental “upgrade” begins with “I can; I am; I do; or I
succeed at …” These statements should be written and entered into
the Quantum Leap notebook as “Step Four – Believing my Success.”
Initially you will coach the four steps in sequence, but soon
realize that they become integrated steps. On any given day your
employee’s thoughts will glide seamlessly from the high altitude of
a dream, down to the earthly details of the day’s most immediate
target. Your employee’s life is being transformed because he or she
sees their world differently. And because they see the world
differently … it is!
David
Benzel is an author and speaker in leadership and creating peak
performance. As the founder of Winning Ways, he has worked with
organizations including Allstate Insurance, Sprint/Nextel and The
Villages. His experience includes six national water-skiing titles
and five records, coach of the U.S. Water-ski team and founder/coach
of an international training center. David is the author of, “Chump
to Champ: How Individuals Can Go From Good to Great” (Advantage
Media). To book David for your next event, call 1-800-616-1193 or
visit
davebenzel@cs.com.
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